The State Port Pilot Memorials and Obituaries | We Remember (2024)

FAQs

What are the final words on an obituary? ›

Concluding Message

In the conclusion of the obituary, special requests may be made such as, “in lieu of flowers, donations may be made to…” or “Our heartfelt thanks to the staff at General Hospital for…” Some families make the final line a dedication honoring their loved one.

When it comes to families of the deceased, their obituaries leave out cause of death information because it's simply their choice — in the end, it's not about how the person died. But rather about how they lived their life.

Obituary Example 1:

“Our beloved [full name] tragically left us on [date of death]. Loved and missed by [list of family members]. [First name]'s passion for [hobbies/interests] touched all who knew them. Contributions to [charity], a cause close to their heart, are appreciated.”

Honoring the deceased: Obituary readings provide an opportunity to honor and pay tribute to the life of the deceased individual. Sharing their life story, accomplishments, and impact, allows attendees to gain a deeper understanding and appreciation for the person they have lost.

We might [hear] words such as "Thank you,” "I love you,” "I forgive you,” "Please forgive me,” or "Good-bye."' She said: 'Being with and supporting patients toward the end of their life is a very special moment. They invite you into their journey even as this life comes to an end.

Sudden, unexpected death is just that: death came without warning. It may happen in a few seconds or minutes, such as in an accident or from a heart attack, or a random, seemingly senseless act of violence. Sudden unexpected deaths also happen when the person is not expected to die in a certain way or place.

Posting an obituary is not a legal requirement and is a sentimental action. Families don't have to publish one if they don't want it or do not have the funds to do so. While you do not have to share a death note or obituary, you must file a death certificate with your state's office.

Write the Obituary with Care – Identity thieves can use details from obituaries to piece together the necessary information to steal a deceased person's identity.

The obituary of 82-year-old Connecticuter Joe Heller, penned by his daughter Monique Heller, was praised as the “best obituary ever” by The New York Times, which also profiled Heller's “wacky” funeral, a casual affair that saw his coffin carried off in a vintage Mack fire truck.

Do you put last names in obituary? ›

When you are listing a relative, make sure to include their first name, their spouse's first name in brackets and then their last name.

Publishing an obituary is a time-sensitive process–you should try to have it written and posted within a week of the deceased's passing. This goes for obituaries published both online and in print. If the obituary includes funeral details, you must publish it at least three days before the funeral.

There are several things you can do physically, such as focusing on your breathing and sipping water, that will help prevent you from crying. Refocusing your thoughts is also a helpful way of stopping tears, which is best done by thinking about positive things.

If you are struggling to find a way to put your thoughts into words, and you want to send a message but are unable to think of what to say to someone before a funeral, consider something simple; “I will be thinking of you today.” “Sending love and prayers to you and your family.” “I hope things run smoothly today.”

The obituary should end by naming your loved one's surviving family members, then giving information about the funeral or memorial service, if the family is making those details public, as well as information about any memorial funds or charitable organizations that people should send donations to.

If you're unsure how to end your eulogy, finish with a simple goodbye, or a thank you for the memories you shared. You might choose to use traditional phrases like 'rest in peace' or 'sleep well'. Or you can use something less formal, like a greeting or joke you used to share with the person who has died.

Don't let all those hard long years fade forgotten in the past, otherwise my life will count for nothing And when at last my soul leaves this earthly body I shall be as I was born free. My love will live on through you, my family. And when you come this way alone, I will greet you with a smile and say Welcome Home.

“We are sad to announce the death of [name], who passed away [date]. A memorial and funeral service will be held at [location] for friends and family to attend at [date, time]. Any donations to their favourite charity [charity name] would be appreciated instead of flowers. Thank you.”